Ok, I'm dancing mostly in my head but if I were to break loose, these are the songs that would cause it.
Listen. Enjoy. Let loose. :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuoRI1YhOY0&feature=youtube_gdata_player
-MercyMe "Move"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LUs4iupASz8&feature=youtube_gdata_player
-Peter Furler "Faster and Louder"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWYZ3Zy1Ri8&feature=youtube_gdata_player
-Peter Furler "Thank You"
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Park and Rec
When my oldest was young, I discovered Park and Rec and it was a lifesaver. Around the time she was 4 turning 5 and kindergarten was still far off, I needed to find something to keep her busy. She was (is) an active girl and bored easily.
By the end of that winter, I had found out about Park and Rec and the great classes they offer. I signed her up for at least 3 or 4 of them including preschool. She tumbled, she created, she had something else to do besides drive me crazy.
The classes were perfect for us. They are relatively inexpensive. They are not a big time commitment. There are a variety of different classes to try out for all ages.
One of the best things we did was sign her up for preschool at Fox Tales Preschool through Park and Rec. The teachers are wonderful. They love the kids and care about each one. I have sent all of my kids there that are old enough.
I sent my son to 3 year old preschool. It was one morning a week. He brought his lunch; it was cute. He didn't come home a rocket scientist but it started him on this path to learning. It put him in a situation with new kids and new rules and gave him new experiences that I couldn't give him. It also started the process of testing him for speech therapy. (Which he needs, more than I realized, but that's another post.)
Fox Tales preschool is now one of the sites for the district's 4K program. This means that it is now 3 days a week instead of 2 and it's FREE! After paying to send 2 of my kiddos, that fact makes me smile. :)
I would encourage you, no matter where you live, to look into Park and Rec in your area. You might be surprised at the fun things they offer.
By the end of that winter, I had found out about Park and Rec and the great classes they offer. I signed her up for at least 3 or 4 of them including preschool. She tumbled, she created, she had something else to do besides drive me crazy.
The classes were perfect for us. They are relatively inexpensive. They are not a big time commitment. There are a variety of different classes to try out for all ages.
One of the best things we did was sign her up for preschool at Fox Tales Preschool through Park and Rec. The teachers are wonderful. They love the kids and care about each one. I have sent all of my kids there that are old enough.
I sent my son to 3 year old preschool. It was one morning a week. He brought his lunch; it was cute. He didn't come home a rocket scientist but it started him on this path to learning. It put him in a situation with new kids and new rules and gave him new experiences that I couldn't give him. It also started the process of testing him for speech therapy. (Which he needs, more than I realized, but that's another post.)
Fox Tales preschool is now one of the sites for the district's 4K program. This means that it is now 3 days a week instead of 2 and it's FREE! After paying to send 2 of my kiddos, that fact makes me smile. :)
I would encourage you, no matter where you live, to look into Park and Rec in your area. You might be surprised at the fun things they offer.
Friday, August 26, 2011
My Life as a Mom
I'm starting a new series on The Mommy Years called "My Life as a Mom" that will post on the first Friday of every month.
Every month I will have a different mom guest post their "story". This is their chance to tell their story and create awareness and empathy among moms.
As moms, we judge and are judged. I'm sure we've all done it at least once. We judge other moms' choices, behavior of their kids, and even how their kids look. What we don't always realize is what that mom's life is really like. Every mom has a different story. Each of us has unique challenges we face and joys we experience.
By telling your story, you can help other moms broaden their views and create community when another mom recognizes that some of YOUR story is also part of THEIR story.
I'm excited and I think this will be a fun thing. You do not have to share anything that you do not feel comfortable sharing. The posts do not need to be fancy or extremely well written. Just give us a glimpse into what your life as a mom is really like.
If you would like to tell your story, please email me and I will set it up. I already have 2 moms that are willing to share their stories, I hope you will be, too. If you know of anyone else with a story they would be willing to share, let me know.
Some ideas of stories could be
My Life as a Mom:
of boys;
of girls;
working full-time;
working part-time;
at home full-time;
after infertility;
dealing with depression;
of a child with special needs;
The list could truly go on and on. God has given each one of us an unique story and life. Let's celebrate that!
Every month I will have a different mom guest post their "story". This is their chance to tell their story and create awareness and empathy among moms.
As moms, we judge and are judged. I'm sure we've all done it at least once. We judge other moms' choices, behavior of their kids, and even how their kids look. What we don't always realize is what that mom's life is really like. Every mom has a different story. Each of us has unique challenges we face and joys we experience.
By telling your story, you can help other moms broaden their views and create community when another mom recognizes that some of YOUR story is also part of THEIR story.
I'm excited and I think this will be a fun thing. You do not have to share anything that you do not feel comfortable sharing. The posts do not need to be fancy or extremely well written. Just give us a glimpse into what your life as a mom is really like.
If you would like to tell your story, please email me and I will set it up. I already have 2 moms that are willing to share their stories, I hope you will be, too. If you know of anyone else with a story they would be willing to share, let me know.
Some ideas of stories could be
My Life as a Mom:
of boys;
of girls;
working full-time;
working part-time;
at home full-time;
after infertility;
dealing with depression;
of a child with special needs;
The list could truly go on and on. God has given each one of us an unique story and life. Let's celebrate that!
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Banana-Oatmeal Bread
My sister, Kelly, found this recipe and tried it out. She said it was "delish!" I think I'll believe her. I should have asked for a sample! ;)
Try it and enjoy!
PointsPlus® Value: 5
Servings: 10
Preparation Time: 10 min
Cooking Time: 50 min
Level of Difficulty: Moderate
This nutritious bread is easy to mix up and will make the whole house smell wonderful.
Ingredients
1¼ cup(s) Flour, white
½ cup(s) Sugar, brown
½ tsp Salt, table
½ tsp Baking soda
¼ tsp Baking powder
3 tsp Oil, canola
1 large Egg(s), raw, beaten
2 large Egg whites, beaten
3 large Banana(s), ripe
1 cup(s) Uncooked old fashioned oats
Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 350°F. In a large bowl, stir together dry ingredients. Add oil and eggs; mix thoroughly.
2. In a smaller bowl, mash bananas with a potato masher or fork. Add bananas and oatmeal to batter.
3. Spray a loaf pan with cooking spray. Pour batter into pan and bake until top of loaf is firm to touch, 45 to 55 minutes. Remove from oven and allow to cool in pan for 5 minutes. Flip out and cool on a wire rack for another 10 minutes.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Rockin' Rocket Favors
I saw these treat cups in Family Fun magazine and knew I had to make them for my son's birthday party.
They were super easy to make and lots of fun. My daughters helped me make them and fill them. I changed ours slightly to say "Hope you had a Blast!!"
Fun, easy, super cute. I love Family Fun magazine ... sigh.
Materials:
Template (There is a template on their website - see side bar on left)
Card stock
Tape
Paper cup
Glue stick
Stickers
Small toys or treats
Instructions:
For each one, trace the shapes from our free template onto card stock, then cut them out.
Fold back the long, straight edge of each fin and tape the fins to a 9-ounce, plain paper cup as shown. Form the circular top into a cone by overlapping its straight edges, then secure it with tape.
Use a glue stick to attach the message label, and embellish the cup with star stickers.
Form a hinge to open and close the rocket by attaching a strip of tape between the cup and the inside of the cone.
Fill the rocket with small toys or treats.
They were super easy to make and lots of fun. My daughters helped me make them and fill them. I changed ours slightly to say "Hope you had a Blast!!"
Fun, easy, super cute. I love Family Fun magazine ... sigh.
Materials:
Template (There is a template on their website - see side bar on left)
Card stock
Tape
Paper cup
Glue stick
Stickers
Small toys or treats
Instructions:
For each one, trace the shapes from our free template onto card stock, then cut them out.
Fold back the long, straight edge of each fin and tape the fins to a 9-ounce, plain paper cup as shown. Form the circular top into a cone by overlapping its straight edges, then secure it with tape.
Use a glue stick to attach the message label, and embellish the cup with star stickers.
Form a hinge to open and close the rocket by attaching a strip of tape between the cup and the inside of the cone.
Fill the rocket with small toys or treats.
Friday, August 19, 2011
September Playdates
Our next playdate will be Friday, September 9 at 9:30 am. We will be meeting at Imagination Station park in Oconomowoc. Imagination Station is a universally accessible playground.
" ... a universally accessible playground means that children of all abilities can play at their appropriate developmental level. It is a playground where every child is challenged. Therefore, it is not a playground only for children in wheelchairs, where ramps rule the playground, it is a playground where children with autism have opportunities for sensory experiences, typically developing children can use their imagination to create play scenarios, and where children with developmental delays can learn in incremental steps how to climb.
Imagination Station does this:
*There are double wide ramps that lead you up to the very top of the playground. There are activities to do along the way so it isn’t a “ramp to no where”.
*The surfacing is pour-in-place rubber surfacing that makes it easier for a wheelchair to move around on, but also provides safety for children who are not steady on their feet.
*There is a fence around the playground with only one entrance/exit, so that “runners” cannot get past mom.
*There is band shell reminiscent of the band shell in town, where children can create play or sing a song. There are percussion instruments to accompany the players.
*There are adapted swings, typical swings and toddler swings.
*The monkey bar area has multiple height bars as well as a variety of challenges. A child in a wheelchair can lift up their arms and pull themselves across, while other children are doing flips on the bars.
*In addition to the swings, there are plenty of other areas for children to experience vestibular motion (e.g. going around in circles, going up and down, or going back & forth.)
*In addition the monkey bars there are plenty of opportunities for children to use their proprioceptive sensory system. There is a huge rope climber that is fun for the little ones as well as for teenagers. There is also a small climbing wall.
*There are two different types of slides.
*many areas for imaginary play with trains, boats, the clock tower, and beautiful streetcapes.
*There are places to climb underneath the playground for children who need a little time to themselves
You can find Imagination Station in Roosevelt Park,101 E. Forest Street, Oconomowoc, Wisconsin 53066. Roosevelt Park is located along the Lake Country Bike Trail.
(http://www.accessibleplayground.net/)
Sounds like a fun place! Thanks, Aimee and Aileen, for the suggestion!
Hope you all can come! Bring a friend!
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We will also be having a playdate on Monday, September 19 at 9:30 am.
We will be walking along the beautiful riverwalk at Frame Park
and stopping to let the kids play on the playground.
Let's meet in the parking lot next to the Schuetze building (behind Whiterock elementary school).
Hope to see you there!
Let me know if you plan on coming to either playdate so I can watch for you.
" ... a universally accessible playground means that children of all abilities can play at their appropriate developmental level. It is a playground where every child is challenged. Therefore, it is not a playground only for children in wheelchairs, where ramps rule the playground, it is a playground where children with autism have opportunities for sensory experiences, typically developing children can use their imagination to create play scenarios, and where children with developmental delays can learn in incremental steps how to climb.
Imagination Station does this:
*There are double wide ramps that lead you up to the very top of the playground. There are activities to do along the way so it isn’t a “ramp to no where”.
*The surfacing is pour-in-place rubber surfacing that makes it easier for a wheelchair to move around on, but also provides safety for children who are not steady on their feet.
*There is a fence around the playground with only one entrance/exit, so that “runners” cannot get past mom.
*There is band shell reminiscent of the band shell in town, where children can create play or sing a song. There are percussion instruments to accompany the players.
*There are adapted swings, typical swings and toddler swings.
*The monkey bar area has multiple height bars as well as a variety of challenges. A child in a wheelchair can lift up their arms and pull themselves across, while other children are doing flips on the bars.
*In addition to the swings, there are plenty of other areas for children to experience vestibular motion (e.g. going around in circles, going up and down, or going back & forth.)
*In addition the monkey bars there are plenty of opportunities for children to use their proprioceptive sensory system. There is a huge rope climber that is fun for the little ones as well as for teenagers. There is also a small climbing wall.
*There are two different types of slides.
*many areas for imaginary play with trains, boats, the clock tower, and beautiful streetcapes.
*There are places to climb underneath the playground for children who need a little time to themselves
You can find Imagination Station in Roosevelt Park,101 E. Forest Street, Oconomowoc, Wisconsin 53066. Roosevelt Park is located along the Lake Country Bike Trail.
(http://www.accessibleplayground.net/)
Sounds like a fun place! Thanks, Aimee and Aileen, for the suggestion!
Hope you all can come! Bring a friend!
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We will also be having a playdate on Monday, September 19 at 9:30 am.
We will be walking along the beautiful riverwalk at Frame Park
and stopping to let the kids play on the playground.
Let's meet in the parking lot next to the Schuetze building (behind Whiterock elementary school).
Hope to see you there!
Let me know if you plan on coming to either playdate so I can watch for you.
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Buttercream Frosting
One thing I enjoy doing is making birthday cakes for my kids. I'd enjoy it more if I was able to do it alone in peace and quiet but that doesn't stop me.
I am by no means a professional but I like to try to get creative with their cakes if I can.
Benton's cake last weekend was a turtle cake. I frosted 2 9x13 stacked layers. Then I made a turtle from some cake I baked in a glass bowl. I cut out the head, legs, and tail from an extra cake I had baked with the leftover batter from the bowl cake. I frosted all of the pieces and stuck them into the "shell" with toothpicks. Then I used spray food coloring to make the turtle green.
I love the spray food coloring that they make now. First, it is fun and fun is good. Second, I think it's just easier and less messy than trying to dye the frosting. Try it, you may love it. :)
(*Sorry for the lack of pictures. I just wasn't able to get my act together in time to add them.)
I've done panda cakes, an Icee cake, a Percy (Thomas train) cake, a Barbie cake, a Bob and Larry cake. I've made more cakes than I can name (or remember) over the last 10 years.
Some have turned out better than others. Some ended up lying down instead of standing upright (dowels are very important). In the end, it's been an adventure. I've had fun, the kids always think they look awesome (I love a child's naïveté), and another birthday is celebrated.
However, it really doesn't matter what the cake looks like as long as it tastes good, right?
Well, have I got a recipe for you today! This frosting is awesome! My mom has been frosting her cakes with it for years! It's good on cutout cookie, too. Lisa, Stephanie, and, of course, Kelly can attest to how yummy this buttercream frosting tastes. Once you try it, no canned frosting will ever do.
*Warning: This not a healthy-tasty recipe. I have no idea how many points plus it is. I'm scared to calculate it.
Buttercream Frosting
1/3 cup butter
1/3 cup shortening
1/4 tsp vanilla
Cream together.
Add 3 cups powdered sugar, one cup at a time, until fully incorporated.
Add 1 1/2 Tbl 2% or whole milk. Beat together slowly. Scrape sides and beat for 5 min or more. This is what makes it very fluffy.
Depending on your cake size, you may have to double or triple the recipe.
Frost your cake and enjoy! Yum!
**Just a little side note, I made the actual cake this weekend the healthy-tasty way with applesauce and egg whites. No one noticed a thing. I received many compliments on how good the cake was, though.
I am by no means a professional but I like to try to get creative with their cakes if I can.
Benton's cake last weekend was a turtle cake. I frosted 2 9x13 stacked layers. Then I made a turtle from some cake I baked in a glass bowl. I cut out the head, legs, and tail from an extra cake I had baked with the leftover batter from the bowl cake. I frosted all of the pieces and stuck them into the "shell" with toothpicks. Then I used spray food coloring to make the turtle green.
I love the spray food coloring that they make now. First, it is fun and fun is good. Second, I think it's just easier and less messy than trying to dye the frosting. Try it, you may love it. :)
(*Sorry for the lack of pictures. I just wasn't able to get my act together in time to add them.)
I've done panda cakes, an Icee cake, a Percy (Thomas train) cake, a Barbie cake, a Bob and Larry cake. I've made more cakes than I can name (or remember) over the last 10 years.
Some have turned out better than others. Some ended up lying down instead of standing upright (dowels are very important). In the end, it's been an adventure. I've had fun, the kids always think they look awesome (I love a child's naïveté), and another birthday is celebrated.
However, it really doesn't matter what the cake looks like as long as it tastes good, right?
Well, have I got a recipe for you today! This frosting is awesome! My mom has been frosting her cakes with it for years! It's good on cutout cookie, too. Lisa, Stephanie, and, of course, Kelly can attest to how yummy this buttercream frosting tastes. Once you try it, no canned frosting will ever do.
*Warning: This not a healthy-tasty recipe. I have no idea how many points plus it is. I'm scared to calculate it.
Buttercream Frosting
1/3 cup butter
1/3 cup shortening
1/4 tsp vanilla
Cream together.
Add 3 cups powdered sugar, one cup at a time, until fully incorporated.
Add 1 1/2 Tbl 2% or whole milk. Beat together slowly. Scrape sides and beat for 5 min or more. This is what makes it very fluffy.
Depending on your cake size, you may have to double or triple the recipe.
Frost your cake and enjoy! Yum!
**Just a little side note, I made the actual cake this weekend the healthy-tasty way with applesauce and egg whites. No one noticed a thing. I received many compliments on how good the cake was, though.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Pinaqua
On Saturday, I threw my youngest son his 2 year old family birthday party. It was at my parents house and was supposed to be a wet and wild (swimming) party. Needless to say, it was wet and it was wild but not exactly what I was thinking.
It rained and was a cooler day so there wasn't much swimming (although a few brave souls did go in).
Anyway, I had also wanted to do a fun thing I saw in Family Fun magazine called a Pinaqua but decided against it when I had seen the weather forecast for Saturday. Instead of having a traditional candy filled, cavity inducing pinata, the pinaqua is filled with water and delivers a cool, wet treat when burst. Perfect for a hot, August day (or so I thought). This looks like such a cute and fun idea. I'll have to try it another time.
Here are the instructions in case you want to try it, too.
What You Need:
Medium-sized trash bag (we used a clear, 10-gallon bag)
Water
Rope
Tree limb
Bandanna or scarf
Broom
Instructions:
Using your backyard hose, fill a medium-sized plastic trash bag with one to two gallons of water. Knot the top of the bag.
Tie one end of the rope tightly beneath the knot. Toss the free end of the rope over a tree branch (a parent's job) and either tie it securely or have the adult stand by to raise and lower the piñaqua.
To play, each child takes a turn getting blindfolded, getting spun around three times, and then taking three whacks at the piñaqua with the broom. The winner is the one who manages to break the bag and unleash the tidal wave.
It rained and was a cooler day so there wasn't much swimming (although a few brave souls did go in).
Anyway, I had also wanted to do a fun thing I saw in Family Fun magazine called a Pinaqua but decided against it when I had seen the weather forecast for Saturday. Instead of having a traditional candy filled, cavity inducing pinata, the pinaqua is filled with water and delivers a cool, wet treat when burst. Perfect for a hot, August day (or so I thought). This looks like such a cute and fun idea. I'll have to try it another time.
Here are the instructions in case you want to try it, too.
What You Need:
Medium-sized trash bag (we used a clear, 10-gallon bag)
Water
Rope
Tree limb
Bandanna or scarf
Broom
Instructions:
Using your backyard hose, fill a medium-sized plastic trash bag with one to two gallons of water. Knot the top of the bag.
Tie one end of the rope tightly beneath the knot. Toss the free end of the rope over a tree branch (a parent's job) and either tie it securely or have the adult stand by to raise and lower the piñaqua.
To play, each child takes a turn getting blindfolded, getting spun around three times, and then taking three whacks at the piñaqua with the broom. The winner is the one who manages to break the bag and unleash the tidal wave.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Playdate Feedback
Hi Mommies
I need your help! I'm looking for some feedback on playdates.
For instance, what day of the week works best for you.
Also, do you prefer to go somewhere and do an activity or would you rather meet in homes? Would you be willing to host a playdate at your home?
Is cost an issue to you? I've been trying to pick places in the past that are free or relatively inexpensive because I want everyone to be able to join in if they want.
I'm hoping to create an atmosphere where we can meet new moms and our kids can have fun together. Please feel free to invite a friend or two to the playdates.
Please, please let me know your feelings on this. I want to make the playdates fun and enjoyable for everyone.
Thank you for your help!
Jamie :)
I need your help! I'm looking for some feedback on playdates.
For instance, what day of the week works best for you.
Also, do you prefer to go somewhere and do an activity or would you rather meet in homes? Would you be willing to host a playdate at your home?
Is cost an issue to you? I've been trying to pick places in the past that are free or relatively inexpensive because I want everyone to be able to join in if they want.
I'm hoping to create an atmosphere where we can meet new moms and our kids can have fun together. Please feel free to invite a friend or two to the playdates.
Please, please let me know your feelings on this. I want to make the playdates fun and enjoyable for everyone.
Thank you for your help!
Jamie :)
Thursday, August 11, 2011
In the Most Delightful Way
This week my youngest son had to be put on some antibiotics for a sinus infection. He is normally a trooper when it comes to taking medicine.
The first night when I gave him his double dose, he kind of gagged and spit half of it back out.
The second night I enlisted the help of my husband and we held him still and tilted back to encourage the medicine to slide right down his throat. Yeah, that didn't work real well either.
Then I remembered something I had heard years ago with one of my other daughters. The nurse had told me to pour chocolate syrup in her mouth before and after giving the medicine. The chocolate syrup kills the taste of the medicine and works really well.
So on the 3rd night, I sucked up his medicine into the syringe and then poured some chocolate syrup onto a plate and sucked that up, too. I wasn't sure if it would work this way but I knew that trying to squirt chocolate syrup in his mouth straight from the bottle would be a disaster.
I gave him his medicine and he didn't even flinch. Big sigh of relief. I gave it to him again last night the same way and had success again.
I thought I would share that little tip with you in case you are ever in that situation - which I know is a desparate situation to be in.
I guess Mary Poppins was right - "just a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down ..."
Poke Cake
Duncan Hines white cake mix
1 1/4 c water
1/4 c applesauce
3 egg whites
Prepare and bake following the directions on box except using ingredients above. Reduce baking time 1-2 minutes.
Let cake cool 20 minutes. With fork, poke holes every 1/2 inch across top of cake
Stir 2 (.3 oz) boxes of any flavor sugar-free Jello into 2 cups boiling water for 2 minutes until dissolved.
Pour evenly over top of cake.
Refrigerate 3 hours.
Top with Cool Whip free and enjoy!
This dessert is so cool and refreshing on a hot summer day!
1/12th of recipe = 5 points plus
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
A Few Matters of Business
I've added a new feature to the blog on the left. You can now sign up to receive posts by email.
Just put your email address in the box and click 'submit'. Then follow the directions and you should start receiving each post in your inbox. Lucky you! ;)
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One last reminder - our swimming playdate is this Friday at 10:00 am. Please let me know if you are planning on coming.
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Lastly, in case you weren't aware. On Tuesday nights at Chilis on Sunset Dr, kids eat free! For each adult meal, you can get 2 free kids meals. That's a deal!
I love Chilis! Yum! If you go, eat some chips and salsa and think of me!
Happy Wednesday!
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
The Perfect Mom
On Being the Perfect Mom
August 3, 2011
Chosenfamilies.org
A little over three years ago, Ben’s seizures started escalating. “A seizure is a sudden surge of electrical activity in the brain that usually affects how a person feels or acts for a short time” (epilepsy.com). Ben began having seizures monthly, then weekly, eventually ending up where he would experience multiple seizures each day.
Ben spent several years experimenting with new medication, side effects, and an ever increasing battery of hospitalizations and medical tests. I felt like I was measuring my weeks in doctors’ appointments and lab tests, continually relying on a handful of friends and babysitters to watch my three children.
One day I was talking with a friend whose husband was also struggling with serious illness. We started discussing all of the ways that we have “cut corners” as moms because our energies are so focused on our husbands.
“If life were different, we would …”
watch less TV.
eat less fast food.
have playdates at our house more often.
supervise our kids’ homework more closely.
have family devotions every day … or at least every week!
The list went on and on as we each talked about what it would look like in our homes if we were the Perfect Moms. We commiserated and laughed together, sharing an understanding that many women might not otherwise have.
Looking back, I think we missed the point. The truth is, we are the perfect moms for our children. We are parenting in the best possible way for the children that God has given us. Ben’s disability affects our entire family. The corners we cut and the accommodations we make are not God’s second best for us. These adjustments actually help our family not only to survive but to thrive. Eating fast food after a long day of dealing with unexpected seizures or watching TV together because Daddy and Mommy are too tired to play a game … these activities are not necessarily sin, or even second best. They are what our family needs to do to lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and to run with endurance the race that is set before us.
God has given our children a front row seat to His sanctification process in our lives. He graciously allows our children to watch us trust Him in the midst of difficulty and pain. In many ways, our children are learning about God much like Job: I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you. If our challenges bring us closer to God, then we are truly the perfect moms for our children.
~ Nancy
This post is written by a woman whose husband had a brain injury and lost his short term memory and struggles with seizures. This family deals with a lot!
After reading her post, though, I realized that all families have struggles and challenges at different levels. We may not all face the same ones but they are there. They may not be obvious to an outside person but it does not mean that we don't struggle with them. I could definitely relate to her list of "If life were different" things.
I thought this was a great post for any mom no matter what she is dealing with. We all get caught up in the way we think a "perfect mom" should be (I know I do) and don't realize that we are the perfect mom for our children. God planned it that way. I would not be the right mom for your children and I'm sure you would not be the right mom for mine.
Be the best mom YOU can be. That's all God is asking of us.
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"The purpose of ChosenFamilies.org is for families living with hidden disabilities to be fully incorporated into the body of Christ. Our mission is to provide resources, connections and encouragement to families with hidden disabilities and to educate and provide resources to religious leaders as they minister to families with these needs. ChosenFamilies.org is a community where people can exchange creative ideas to meet the challenges of living and prospering within a family with special needs. We will endeavor to inform, educate, inspire, motivate, and encourage families and churches in this vitally important mission."
Shannon Royce explains,
"As a mom of a child who has been diagnosed with a hidden disability, I know the challenges our families face. These hidden disabilities — Anxiety, Asperger, ADHD, Autism, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Learning disabilities, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Tourette syndrome, and others — are neurological disorders that affect every area of a child’s and a family’s life."
August 3, 2011
Chosenfamilies.org
A little over three years ago, Ben’s seizures started escalating. “A seizure is a sudden surge of electrical activity in the brain that usually affects how a person feels or acts for a short time” (epilepsy.com). Ben began having seizures monthly, then weekly, eventually ending up where he would experience multiple seizures each day.
Ben spent several years experimenting with new medication, side effects, and an ever increasing battery of hospitalizations and medical tests. I felt like I was measuring my weeks in doctors’ appointments and lab tests, continually relying on a handful of friends and babysitters to watch my three children.
One day I was talking with a friend whose husband was also struggling with serious illness. We started discussing all of the ways that we have “cut corners” as moms because our energies are so focused on our husbands.
“If life were different, we would …”
watch less TV.
eat less fast food.
have playdates at our house more often.
supervise our kids’ homework more closely.
have family devotions every day … or at least every week!
The list went on and on as we each talked about what it would look like in our homes if we were the Perfect Moms. We commiserated and laughed together, sharing an understanding that many women might not otherwise have.
Looking back, I think we missed the point. The truth is, we are the perfect moms for our children. We are parenting in the best possible way for the children that God has given us. Ben’s disability affects our entire family. The corners we cut and the accommodations we make are not God’s second best for us. These adjustments actually help our family not only to survive but to thrive. Eating fast food after a long day of dealing with unexpected seizures or watching TV together because Daddy and Mommy are too tired to play a game … these activities are not necessarily sin, or even second best. They are what our family needs to do to lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and to run with endurance the race that is set before us.
God has given our children a front row seat to His sanctification process in our lives. He graciously allows our children to watch us trust Him in the midst of difficulty and pain. In many ways, our children are learning about God much like Job: I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you. If our challenges bring us closer to God, then we are truly the perfect moms for our children.
~ Nancy
This post is written by a woman whose husband had a brain injury and lost his short term memory and struggles with seizures. This family deals with a lot!
After reading her post, though, I realized that all families have struggles and challenges at different levels. We may not all face the same ones but they are there. They may not be obvious to an outside person but it does not mean that we don't struggle with them. I could definitely relate to her list of "If life were different" things.
I thought this was a great post for any mom no matter what she is dealing with. We all get caught up in the way we think a "perfect mom" should be (I know I do) and don't realize that we are the perfect mom for our children. God planned it that way. I would not be the right mom for your children and I'm sure you would not be the right mom for mine.
Be the best mom YOU can be. That's all God is asking of us.
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"The purpose of ChosenFamilies.org is for families living with hidden disabilities to be fully incorporated into the body of Christ. Our mission is to provide resources, connections and encouragement to families with hidden disabilities and to educate and provide resources to religious leaders as they minister to families with these needs. ChosenFamilies.org is a community where people can exchange creative ideas to meet the challenges of living and prospering within a family with special needs. We will endeavor to inform, educate, inspire, motivate, and encourage families and churches in this vitally important mission."
Shannon Royce explains,
"As a mom of a child who has been diagnosed with a hidden disability, I know the challenges our families face. These hidden disabilities — Anxiety, Asperger, ADHD, Autism, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Learning disabilities, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Tourette syndrome, and others — are neurological disorders that affect every area of a child’s and a family’s life."
Monday, August 8, 2011
Everything You Do
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Colossians 3:23-24 NIV
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FEqdDdvFXZ0&feature=youtube_gdata_player
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FEqdDdvFXZ0&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Friday, August 5, 2011
Consistency
The questions are different, but each answer is the same.
What will guard us against foolish extremes?
What characterizes those who are habitually successful in sports or sales or some skill?
What single quality in a business builds respect deeper than any other?
What brings security in relationships?
What makes us choose a particular brand name over all others?
What's needed most by parents in the home?
What draws you to the same restaurant time and again?
What do you want most from your paperboy ... or milkman ... or postman?
What will add more weight to your witness for Christ than anything else?
CONSISTENCY. That's the answer to all nine questions, and you know it's true. Steadiness. You can count on it. It'll be there tomorrow just like it was yesterday ... free from silly moods, sudden changes, or fickle fads. Early in the day or late at night, consistency stands firm. When pain or hardship bites, consistency doesn't bleed. When the majority is tired and irritable, consistency is stable and resilient. Not insensitive, boring ... but reliable, faithful. Not opposed to change or reason, but trustworthy. Not stubborn, but solid. Yes, that's it: solid.
It's the stuff most mothers are made of when their little ones get sick ... and missionaries who lose themselves in their labor even though it yields limited fruit. It reveals itself in faithful employees who show up on time, roll up their sleeves, and commit themselves more to doing the job than watching the clock. Diligence is its brother ... dependability, its partner ... discipline, its parent.
CONSISTENCY. A living model of patience, determination, and strength - regardless of shifty, rootless times. The blasts of ridicule and criticism may punch it in the face - but consistency stands and takes it as silently as a bronze statue takes the tempest. One poet calls it "a jewel," another "an anchor of iron." It knows little of ups or downs, highs or lows, blue Mondays or holiday hangovers. It hates tardiness and absenteeism. It thrives on sacrifice and unselfishness. It's an obvious mark of maturity. It's hanging in there day in and day out in spite of everything that could get you sidetracked.
In biblical terms, consistency is a subtle, supple thread woven into the fabric of scriptural truth. Paul had it in mind when he told Timothy to
"... be ready in season and out of season ... " (2 Timothy 4:2);
and when he exhorted the Galatians
"... let us not lose heart ... for in due time we shall reap if we do not grow weary" (Galatians 6:9).
James saw it as a stabilizing trait, which he called
"... endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect ..." (James 1:3b-4).
We are reminded that Abraham was consistent when it came to believing God's promise to him, because
"... he did not waver ..." (Romans 4:20).
But best of all,
"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today, yes and forever" (Hebrews 13:8).
One of the most attractive, magnetic characteristics of Christ is His consistency. When you need Him, He is there. He's there even when you don't think you need Him! You're never too early or too late. He's never in a lousy mood nor will He ask you to call back during office hours. He's available ... because He's immutable. With Him, there's no new year or old year. He is "the same," regardless.
CONSISTENCY.
It's the jewel worth wearing ...
It's the anchor worth weighing ...
It's the thread worth weaving ...
It's the battle worth winning.
*Deepening your roots
~ Romans 4; 1 Timothy 4:15-16; Hebrews 6:1-12 ~
- Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life by Charles R. Swindoll
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I thought this was so good and it really gave me something to think about. I struggle with consistency. I don't know why but I know it is a problem I have. I get bored. I get antsy. I let my hormones rule my day (you know what I'm talking about).
As a parent, especially, consistency is so important. Kids need to know what to expect next. I wish my kids were more consistent. I feel like I never know what I'm going to be up against with them.
I'm going to start to work on my consistency. In my mood, my actions, my routine. And maybe, just maybe, by seeing me be more consistent, they will be more consistent in their moods and attitudes, too.
What will guard us against foolish extremes?
What characterizes those who are habitually successful in sports or sales or some skill?
What single quality in a business builds respect deeper than any other?
What brings security in relationships?
What makes us choose a particular brand name over all others?
What's needed most by parents in the home?
What draws you to the same restaurant time and again?
What do you want most from your paperboy ... or milkman ... or postman?
What will add more weight to your witness for Christ than anything else?
CONSISTENCY. That's the answer to all nine questions, and you know it's true. Steadiness. You can count on it. It'll be there tomorrow just like it was yesterday ... free from silly moods, sudden changes, or fickle fads. Early in the day or late at night, consistency stands firm. When pain or hardship bites, consistency doesn't bleed. When the majority is tired and irritable, consistency is stable and resilient. Not insensitive, boring ... but reliable, faithful. Not opposed to change or reason, but trustworthy. Not stubborn, but solid. Yes, that's it: solid.
It's the stuff most mothers are made of when their little ones get sick ... and missionaries who lose themselves in their labor even though it yields limited fruit. It reveals itself in faithful employees who show up on time, roll up their sleeves, and commit themselves more to doing the job than watching the clock. Diligence is its brother ... dependability, its partner ... discipline, its parent.
CONSISTENCY. A living model of patience, determination, and strength - regardless of shifty, rootless times. The blasts of ridicule and criticism may punch it in the face - but consistency stands and takes it as silently as a bronze statue takes the tempest. One poet calls it "a jewel," another "an anchor of iron." It knows little of ups or downs, highs or lows, blue Mondays or holiday hangovers. It hates tardiness and absenteeism. It thrives on sacrifice and unselfishness. It's an obvious mark of maturity. It's hanging in there day in and day out in spite of everything that could get you sidetracked.
In biblical terms, consistency is a subtle, supple thread woven into the fabric of scriptural truth. Paul had it in mind when he told Timothy to
"... be ready in season and out of season ... " (2 Timothy 4:2);
and when he exhorted the Galatians
"... let us not lose heart ... for in due time we shall reap if we do not grow weary" (Galatians 6:9).
James saw it as a stabilizing trait, which he called
"... endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect ..." (James 1:3b-4).
We are reminded that Abraham was consistent when it came to believing God's promise to him, because
"... he did not waver ..." (Romans 4:20).
But best of all,
"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today, yes and forever" (Hebrews 13:8).
One of the most attractive, magnetic characteristics of Christ is His consistency. When you need Him, He is there. He's there even when you don't think you need Him! You're never too early or too late. He's never in a lousy mood nor will He ask you to call back during office hours. He's available ... because He's immutable. With Him, there's no new year or old year. He is "the same," regardless.
CONSISTENCY.
It's the jewel worth wearing ...
It's the anchor worth weighing ...
It's the thread worth weaving ...
It's the battle worth winning.
*Deepening your roots
~ Romans 4; 1 Timothy 4:15-16; Hebrews 6:1-12 ~
- Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life by Charles R. Swindoll
*************************************************************
I thought this was so good and it really gave me something to think about. I struggle with consistency. I don't know why but I know it is a problem I have. I get bored. I get antsy. I let my hormones rule my day (you know what I'm talking about).
As a parent, especially, consistency is so important. Kids need to know what to expect next. I wish my kids were more consistent. I feel like I never know what I'm going to be up against with them.
I'm going to start to work on my consistency. In my mood, my actions, my routine. And maybe, just maybe, by seeing me be more consistent, they will be more consistent in their moods and attitudes, too.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Chocolate Frosted Cupcakes
Another new, healthier recipe. I can tell you're excited.
I'm just finding that a treat doesn't always have to be decadent. It can taste good and not be all that bad for you. I am so impressed with how the lighter version of these cakes taste (using applesauce and egg whites) that I think I'm going to make all of my cakes this way. Shhh ... Don't tell.
The real problem lies in the frosting. That yummy deliciousness that is butter, crisco, and powdered sugar is not all that good for you. Surprise, I know. So, once in a blue moon, I'll partake. But when you have a family as big as mine with birthdays around every corner, you need to come up with a healthier alternative.
Here is my latest concoction. It tastes great on it's own, too! (1/2 cup = 2 points plus)
Chocolate Frosted Cupcakes
Cupcakes :
1 box yellow cake mix
1 cup water
1/3 cup applesauce
5 egg whites
"Frosting" :
Small container cool whip free
4 serving box chocolate sugar free pudding
Bake cupcakes according to package directions except using above ingredients. Decrease baking time by 1-2 min.
When cupcakes are cool, mix cool whip and dry pudding mix together. "Frost" cupcakes and enjoy!
2 cupcakes = 5 points plus
I'm just finding that a treat doesn't always have to be decadent. It can taste good and not be all that bad for you. I am so impressed with how the lighter version of these cakes taste (using applesauce and egg whites) that I think I'm going to make all of my cakes this way. Shhh ... Don't tell.
The real problem lies in the frosting. That yummy deliciousness that is butter, crisco, and powdered sugar is not all that good for you. Surprise, I know. So, once in a blue moon, I'll partake. But when you have a family as big as mine with birthdays around every corner, you need to come up with a healthier alternative.
Here is my latest concoction. It tastes great on it's own, too! (1/2 cup = 2 points plus)
Chocolate Frosted Cupcakes
Cupcakes :
1 box yellow cake mix
1 cup water
1/3 cup applesauce
5 egg whites
"Frosting" :
Small container cool whip free
4 serving box chocolate sugar free pudding
Bake cupcakes according to package directions except using above ingredients. Decrease baking time by 1-2 min.
When cupcakes are cool, mix cool whip and dry pudding mix together. "Frost" cupcakes and enjoy!
2 cupcakes = 5 points plus
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
School days, school days ...
Yesterday we went and took care of that dreaded task called "school shopping". As an adult it is way less fun than I remember it being as a kid. Mostly, I'm sure because I'm the one footing the bill.
The lists they give out don't help, either. Most of the time the lists are so specific that it is nearly impossible to find what they are asking for.
This year was better. The lists weren't as specific and I think I've loosened up a bit. I've realized that if I can't find yellow 1 1/2 x 2" post-its, multi-color 1 3/8 x 1 7/8" post-its will do. (Do you see how you could drive yourself crazy?)
Anyway, this year the girls were able to pick out any color notebooks and folders they wanted (instead of 1 yellow, 1 blue, 1 eggplant ...). This was exciting. It was even more exciting because at Wal-mart they have Dayspring notebooks, folders, binders, and pencil cases with Bible verses and Christian sayings on them.
I almost dropped over when I saw them mixed in with the other school supplies. How cool is that?? I think it's very cool.
I always feel like they are trying to push God out of schools. I was thrilled to see these simple school supplies promoting God's love and Word.
My kids thought it was pretty cool, too. They bought a couple of Dayspring items along with their sparkly unicorn, panda bear, and other fun, girly stuff.
Thank you, Dayspring, for helping my girls shine their lights a little brighter in their schools!
Go check it out, and buy some so Wal-mart knows we like it, we like it a lot!
**I also bought Soul Surfer on DVD yesterday. Check that out, too.**
Disclaimer: No one is compensating me for my opinion. I have no stock in Wal-mart, Dayspring or Soul Surfer. I only have stock in the kingdom of God.
The lists they give out don't help, either. Most of the time the lists are so specific that it is nearly impossible to find what they are asking for.
This year was better. The lists weren't as specific and I think I've loosened up a bit. I've realized that if I can't find yellow 1 1/2 x 2" post-its, multi-color 1 3/8 x 1 7/8" post-its will do. (Do you see how you could drive yourself crazy?)
Anyway, this year the girls were able to pick out any color notebooks and folders they wanted (instead of 1 yellow, 1 blue, 1 eggplant ...). This was exciting. It was even more exciting because at Wal-mart they have Dayspring notebooks, folders, binders, and pencil cases with Bible verses and Christian sayings on them.
I almost dropped over when I saw them mixed in with the other school supplies. How cool is that?? I think it's very cool.
I always feel like they are trying to push God out of schools. I was thrilled to see these simple school supplies promoting God's love and Word.
My kids thought it was pretty cool, too. They bought a couple of Dayspring items along with their sparkly unicorn, panda bear, and other fun, girly stuff.
Thank you, Dayspring, for helping my girls shine their lights a little brighter in their schools!
Go check it out, and buy some so Wal-mart knows we like it, we like it a lot!
**I also bought Soul Surfer on DVD yesterday. Check that out, too.**
Disclaimer: No one is compensating me for my opinion. I have no stock in Wal-mart, Dayspring or Soul Surfer. I only have stock in the kingdom of God.
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
August Playdate
We're doing it again ...
Our August playdate will be on Friday, August 12th at 10:00 am at my parents pool!!
The pool is above ground and has a slight dip in the center. They have a few life jackets and baby boats but please feel free to bring your own if you have them.
Also, bring a lunch along and we can picnic in the backyard.
Let me know if you have questions. I will email my parents address and directions to their house when I find out whose coming.
This should be a lot of fun as long as the weather cooperates!
I hope you can all come!
Our August playdate will be on Friday, August 12th at 10:00 am at my parents pool!!
The pool is above ground and has a slight dip in the center. They have a few life jackets and baby boats but please feel free to bring your own if you have them.
Also, bring a lunch along and we can picnic in the backyard.
Let me know if you have questions. I will email my parents address and directions to their house when I find out whose coming.
This should be a lot of fun as long as the weather cooperates!
I hope you can all come!
Monday, August 1, 2011
Healing
Over the weekend I received an email from Hallie's teacher from the past two years. She is the woman who invited Hallie and I to the mother/daughter book club. I think the world of this woman. She is an amazing teacher and just a wonderful person. I look up to her and was absolutely thrilled when she wanted to include us in her group.
The email she sent me really took me back. She thanked me for a fun evening the other night. Then she said she thought I was so creative and her husband, who is not easily impressed, was impressed with all of my ideas and ended the email with calling me Oh Talented One.
I thought Wow, really? You really think that?
See, I have let the enemy tell me lies about myself pretty much my entire life. Lies concerning my body image and my talents, or lack thereof, and basically just my worth. These lies have robbed me of so many experiences and years of my life.
It doesn't help that I have a perfectionist mindset. It's all or nothing. If I can't be the best, then why try?
The combination has been deadly. Literally, it has killed relationships, as well as seriously hurt many areas of my life. As a result, I found myself in quite a mess.
Thankfully, God has been redeeming what has been lost and is helping me to heal and move on and slowly clean up the messes in my life.
I'm hoping to someday soon have a testimony post to fill you in on the amazing things God has been doing. But today I just want to encourage you to no longer listen to any of the lies that you have been told over the years.
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
John 10:10 NIV
I have had a healing day. I've thought about different things that I have been told over the years and in turn thought about myself and I've given them to God. Some of them have brought me to tears which tells me that even though I may have heard it 25 years ago, the "wound" still hurts. I ripped off the scab and allowed God to apply His ointment to my wound so it can fully heal and no longer hurt me.
God wants to heal our hurts. He loves us despite our imperfections. He will use our imperfections to bring Him glory. Praise God!
Examine the way you see yourself. Is it how God sees you? I doubt it. Allow yourself to heal and live victoriously.
You are beautiful, talented, special, and worthy of God's love and mine!
The email she sent me really took me back. She thanked me for a fun evening the other night. Then she said she thought I was so creative and her husband, who is not easily impressed, was impressed with all of my ideas and ended the email with calling me Oh Talented One.
I thought Wow, really? You really think that?
See, I have let the enemy tell me lies about myself pretty much my entire life. Lies concerning my body image and my talents, or lack thereof, and basically just my worth. These lies have robbed me of so many experiences and years of my life.
It doesn't help that I have a perfectionist mindset. It's all or nothing. If I can't be the best, then why try?
The combination has been deadly. Literally, it has killed relationships, as well as seriously hurt many areas of my life. As a result, I found myself in quite a mess.
Thankfully, God has been redeeming what has been lost and is helping me to heal and move on and slowly clean up the messes in my life.
I'm hoping to someday soon have a testimony post to fill you in on the amazing things God has been doing. But today I just want to encourage you to no longer listen to any of the lies that you have been told over the years.
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
John 10:10 NIV
I have had a healing day. I've thought about different things that I have been told over the years and in turn thought about myself and I've given them to God. Some of them have brought me to tears which tells me that even though I may have heard it 25 years ago, the "wound" still hurts. I ripped off the scab and allowed God to apply His ointment to my wound so it can fully heal and no longer hurt me.
God wants to heal our hurts. He loves us despite our imperfections. He will use our imperfections to bring Him glory. Praise God!
Examine the way you see yourself. Is it how God sees you? I doubt it. Allow yourself to heal and live victoriously.
You are beautiful, talented, special, and worthy of God's love and mine!
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